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1. Is the name you have now the same name that's on your birth certificate? If not, what's changed?
Same old , same old

2. If you could change your name (first, middle and/or last), what would it be?
I wouldn’t change a thing about it ! its short and simple – what else can I ask for !

3. Why were you named what you were? (Is there a story behind it? Who specifically was responsible for naming you?)
My mom’s eldest sister suggested my name. Its based on my birth “rashi” – “tu la” which needs a name to begin with “r” or “t”…

4. Are there any names you really hate or love? What are they and why?
Names I love - Riya,Diva,Aaliya,Anjali,Arya,Riva
I don’t usually like long names. But the more meaningful they are the better.

5. Is the analysis of your name at kabalarians.com / triggur.org / astroexpert accurate? How or how isn't it?This is what the site says:

Your name of Ritu has made you versatile and creative. There is hardly anything you cannot do if you put your mind to it, but a driving urge leads you to one experience after another, seldom finishing what you start. You cannot find peace of mind or lasting contentment in anything you do. As soon as a challenge is met, boredom sets in, and you yearn for another experience. This restlessness makes it difficult for you to assume responsibility and to establish stable, progressive conditions in your life. You could do well in sales work or in meeting the public where quickness of mind and expression are all important. You have many friends, but lose interest in people very quickly. Your intense mental activity spoils system and concentration, and plays havoc with relaxation and sleep. Out of your quick thinking has been borne hasty speech. Acting on impulse instead of with forethought has led to many disappointments and bitter experiences.

That sounds like me…..some………
posted by soleil 8:34 PM Permalink

Emode Overdrive -

Are You an Optimist or a Pessimist?

You're pretty optimistic, but you've got a good dash of realism. The world isn't a vale of tears, but it's not the Good Ship Lollipop, either.Well, everything's not quite roses and teddy bears for you, but you do tend to look on the bright side of life (we can hear those Monty Python boys whistling right now...). Sure, you sometimes bitch and moan about your problems (who doesn't?), but deep down you're pretty sure that everything will eventually turn out fine. When the weather man says it's going to be sunny, you leave your umbrella at home. In general, you like to be around people, and you try to make new friends when you can. You do your best to take things at face value, rather than making mountains out of molehills. Basically, the world is sort of like a big coconut to you: tough and hairy on the outside, but, when you get down into it, there's good stuff inside.

Are You a People Pleaser?

You aim to please - most of the time. Bringing a smile to someone's face is just par for the course for you. Although keeping everyone happy is a high priority, you still try to look out for number one. You are both familiar and comfortable with compromise. You try your best to keep the peace in your relationships. And if maintaining that peace entails some sacrificing, that's life. Even though you don't neglect yourself in your decisions, you might often place others' needs above your own. Be careful not to sell yourself short. If you give more than your share, you might not be demanding the amount of respect you deserve. Having some symptoms of the "Disease to Please" is a good thing. It shows how much you value others in your life. People love people pleasers! It's great to place "other people" at the top of your list, but just make sure that you stay up there too!


Are You a Perfectionist?
Appearance

Although you're probably very conscious of how you look, you're willing to occasionally leave your house without every hair in place and every crease in line. You're very aware of your appearance, but you don't obsess about it. You're okay with changes in your getting-ready routine, and are fine with not always looking your absolute best.

Possessions

Looks like you might slack off a bit when it comes to taking care of your possessions. Since you don't need your surroundings to be neat and organized, and every little trinket doesn't have to have a spot to call home, the condition of your things isn't a big concern. Clothes? Furniture? CDs and books? They're there to be enjoyed, not preserved for generations to come, so you probably don't invest too much time in taking care of them. And it's fine by you if everything isn't always in peak shape. Being mellow about your stuff is great, but if you want to save yourself some money in replacement costs and extend the lifespan of your possessions, it's worth spending a little time maintaining them.

Work

We can tell that you prefer to turn in top-notch work and always invest a significant amount of pride in every task you take on. But you also understand that it's important to have an open mind and a flexible attitude at work. That's why you're able to occasionally let your personal standards slide a little when your employer needs you to. So you stay open to change, while at the same time remaining organized and efficient enough to plan out a day or week at a time. Keep up the good balance!

Are You Sure You're You?

Great news! There's a strong chance that you're really who you think you are. Most people have fallen victim to the hazards of modern times. But you're one of the lucky few who has managed to keep a strong sense of identity. No matter where you go, there you are. Keep it up, because being you is an incredibly valuable skill.

Of course you may have a few residual doubts. There may be times when you wonder if the real you hasn't wandered off somewhere - to join the circus, or an Internet startup. That's normal. But based on your responses, you don't exhibit too many of the warning signs. You've kept the high-risk identity-loss activities to a minimum. You seem to have a firm grip on your priorities, and you know where you're heading.

Some suggestions for remaining yourself: keep a journal where you can write your more intimate thoughts. If you ever start losing your identity, you'll have persuasive legal proof of the transformation. Another idea: label your underwear. During an identity crisis, it's usually the first thing to go.

How Do You Connect?

The Networker

There's no doubt about it: You like to be in the know, and you spend a lot of time checking in with friends and family to find out what they're up to. You're a networker in the most natural sense and probably are better at keeping other people in touch than they are. What is it about you? Your easy-going style, your sincere desire to hook up the people you like in your life? You're just someone who doesn't take relationships for granted. You're probably still in touch with the kids you met at camp years ago — and you plan on keeping the friends you have now forever.

You love hooking your friends up with one another, and your friends might tease you about your obsession with matchmaking — but they know when they need a place to crash in Chicago, or a lead on a cool new job for the summer, that you're the person who can really connect them with a place to stay, some free concert tix, a new friend, a new job...

How Passionate Are You?

Mighty Magenta

Well, super girl, there's no containing you and your almighty passion. With your extra-strong drive, there's no holding back when something's important to you — whether it's matters of the heart or matters of the head.

Enthusiasm is your game, and you're one to go after your heart's desire. Wanna run for student body president? Throw a fab Spring Fling? Let no man (or woman) stand in your way! While some may think your multiple interests and will of steel a little over-the-top, you probably feel differently. After all, pushing the boundaries and breaking a few rules is a small price to pay to enter the winner's circle.

A mistake-free life is hardly worth living, and you'd surely rather be led by your all-consuming convictions than wait backstage for life to happen. Patience may be a virtue, but unbridled enthusiasm is your true ticket to happiness. Whatever your dream, your powerful passion is sure to put you in the fast lane.

What Are You Afraid Of?
Ritu, you are most afraid of moving forward

Have you ever noticed that you're more concerned about making the "right" decisions than many people around you when it comes to your future? Or do you sometimes worry more than you should about committing to your personal or professional goals or feel anxious that you'll never really be successful? If so, you're not alone. There are many people who share your fear of moving forward.

It can be a real strength to recognize your fears. By being aware of the things that frighten you, you can assess whether fear is helping you or negatively impacting your life. For instance, a fear of moving forward may sometimes motivate you to take action in a positive way, like by experiencing a wider variety of things than others.

However, fear's negative aspects can sometimes be more damaging than you realize. Living with fear not only prevents you from living life to the fullest; it can also have a significant negative impact on your energy, health, and your close relationships if not kept in check.

Who's Your Type?
Your type is the BrainLet's put it this way — you would never date the Scarecrow from the Wizardof Oz. A guy without a brain is not the guy for you! Your Mr. Right is well-read, extremely knowledgeable, and can beat anyone at Trivial Pursuit. Hecan hold his own in any intellectual conversation, and he's got aninsatiable desire to learn. You prefer a strong mind over strong muscles and have no patience for someone who considers TV mentally stimulating.Whether it's because he can take apart a computer and rebuild it at thespeed of light or the way he can recite the price of any stock on themarket, his brainpower impresses you. You love to learn, and there's nobetter knowledge than the kind you get from someone you love!

What Type Are You? You are the Girl Next Door
Cute, fun, and sweet, you're Sandra Bullock, Jennifer Aniston, and Meg Ryan all rolled up into one — the perfect Girl Next Door. Naturally pretty, unpretentious, and generous, you demand your share of respect, but you aren't particularly high-maintenance. What's your ideal date? Probably a Blockbuster night — you don't mind skipping an evening on the town if it means getting some old-fashioned snuggling on the sofa. Careful yet spontaneous, you're a little bit of the Guy's Girl, a smidge of Sorority Sister (the nice kind), and just a hint of the Hippie Chick. But you've got an appeal that's all your own, which is why the guys can't stay away. People are attracted to your strong values and traditional ways. Your winning smile, bright eyes, and loving nature will make anyone want to hold on tight and never let go.


posted by soleil 10:05 PM Permalink

Quizilla Overdrive

What Romance Movie Best Represents Your Love Life?
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"You must remember this, a kiss is still a
kiss". Your romance is Casablanca. A
classic story of love in trying times, chock
full of both cynicism and hope. You obviously
believe in true love, but you're also
constantly aware of practicality and societal
expectations. That's not always fun, but at
least it's realistic. Try not to let the Nazis
get you down too much.



Fight Club!


What kind of kiss are you?
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You are a child's kiss. Completely sweet and
innocent and pure. You mean no harm and only
love in your sweet kisses.


What would your Japanese name be? (female)
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Ichi - "That one with wisdom"
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What Color is Your Heart?
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Your Heart is Red


What Kind of Smile are You?
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You're the loving smile,the one that is entirely
devoted to others,especially that one
person.You really can't get them out of your
head,but then,you don't really want to.



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Seer


What Inuyasha Character are you?
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Your Sesshoumaru! you are calm and collected and
you don't show any emotion at all. But inside
we all know you are a softy, it's just a matter
of showing it to everyone else. Be open once in
a while and maybe even date one of your many
fans!


How Old is Your Inner Child?
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My inner child is sixteen years old!

Life's not fair! It's never been fair, but while
adults might just accept that, I know
something's gotta change. And it's gonna
change, just as soon as I become an adult and
get some power of my own.


What Zodiac Sign Are You Attracted To?
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You should be dating a Leo.
23 July - 22 August
This mate is honest and loyal, with a sunny
disposition. Though this lion has the tendency
to be arrogant, sulky or smug, he/she is
unrestrained in bed.


What feeling do you represent?
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You represent... naivete.
So innocent and trusting... you can be very shy at
times, but it's only because you're not sure
how to act. You give off that "I need to
be protected vibe." Remember that not all
people are good. Being too trusting will get
you easily hurt.


What Sign of Affection Are You?
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hug from behind - you like to feel what the other
person is feeling and see things how they see
them. you tend to be serious and emotional.




posted by soleil 9:16 PM Permalink

50 Questions

Your name spelled backwards:
utir
Where were your parents born?
Dad – Ahmedabad, Mom – Mumbai
What is the last thing you downloaded onto your computer?
O Meri Jaane Jaan – A song by Talvin Singh
What's your favorite restaurant?
Birmies – A Chinese joint back home
Taj Mahal – The best Indian food (spicy – verrry hot !) in Halifax
Last time you swam in a pool?
Rajpath Club – Ahmedabad.
Have you ever been in a school play?
I used to be in school dances – lol !!! and I even sang once ! lol even harder !!!
How many kids do you want?
Son – eldest…and a daughter to follow…
Type of music you dislike most?
Hard Rock …don’t understand it. Soft rock – some.
Are you registered to vote?
Cant Vote in Canada. Never Voted in India
Do you have cable?
Yes.
Have you ever ridden on a moped?
Yup ! My Kinetic…..Black …and before that a Scooty – Metallic Grey
Ever prank call anybody?
Yeah @ 2 in the night …We were going to repair refrigerators !
Ever get a parking ticket?
Nope. Dont Drive.
Would you go bungee jumping or sky diving?
Oh Yes !
Furthest place you ever travelled?
Nairobi – South Africa
Do you have a garden?
Now – no . Before – a courtyard and a garden. A cactus Grden in the gallery by my study room….
What's your favorite comic strip?
Garfield. And there’s this other one – two women – thin and fat. forgot the name…
Do you really know all the words to your national anthem?
Nope.
Bath or Shower, morning or night?
Shower in the morning. Bath when in mood.
Best movie you've seen in the past month?
American Chai. A definite worth watch.
Favorite pizza topping?
Olives – green. Jalapeño – Hot Ones Please !
Chips or popcorn?
Popcorn and floss :p
What color lipstick do you usually wear?
Virtual Violet by Revlon, Chocolate Icing by Wet Shine
Have you ever smoked peanut shells?
Whtz tht?
Have you ever been in a beauty pageant?
lolz…no !
Orange Juice or apple?
Orange - Tropicana Pls.
Who was the last person you went out to dinner with and where did you dine?
My cousins and me – Rakhshabandhan treat @ Village of India
Favorite type chocolate bar?
Any Dark Chocolate. Sometimes with a tinge of mint. Bliss…
When was the last time you voted at the polls?
aiyn? Wht polls?
Last time you ate a homegrown tomato?
Couple of weeks back. They were Orange.
Have you ever won a trophy?
Do certificates qualify?! Hehe…No !
Are you a good cook?
Yes. I cook n roll….
Do you know how to pump your own gas?
Nope.
Ever order an article from an infomercial?
Nope. But been tempted.
Sprite or 7-up?
Ugghhhh. Thumbs-up. Can make do with Coke.
Have you ever had to wear a uniform to work?
As a Patient Attendant – Scrubs! Had blue ones !;)
Last thing you bought at a pharmacy?
Conditioner
Ever throw up in public?
Nope
Would you prefer being a millionaire or find true love?
millionaire now. true love later.
Do you believe in love at first sight?
Nope. Lust at first sight - yes.
Ever call a 1-900 number?
Nope
Can exs be friends?
No. Keep the mess away. Bless urself.
Who was the last person you visited in a hospital?
My gradpa couple of years back.
Did you have a lot of hair when you were a baby?
i had curls – tiny lovely curls. Now the damn thing’s straight as a stick. huh
What message is on your answering machine?
Please leave message after tone. The machine says it all. Duh !
What's your all time favorite Saturday Night Live Character?
Never bothered. Saturday's are Mahabharat nights !
What was the name of your first pet?
Minu. A cat. She’s had millions of babies …kaiyu and all…
What is in your purse?
Credit Cards – Debit Cards. A small diary. Gum.Sun Glasses.Receipts.Loose change. Pen – a purple and a black ! Lipstick.Hairbrush.
Favorite thing to do before bedtime?
Read something - Ideally. The computer's taken over. Its the darn time difference.
What is one thing you are grateful for today?
The band aid – it helps bearing the damn blisters ! ;)
posted by soleil 10:31 PM Permalink

I miss...

- the sense of belonging...
- family - to mentor- to share - to support
- friends - to gossip - to crib - to hang out with...
- my city - the ins and outs - the nooks and corners ...old and familiar...
- my uncles - to argue with - to go out with- to have long sunday breakfasts with...
- my aunts - to cook with - to take advise from - to watch stupid soap operas with...
- my cousins - define me - make me feel like i belong...lost ..without them...to boss over...
- my house - my home - my corner - mine - with mine -to be cherished-to belong - to own - to love....
- my garden - my courtyard - my backyard - long games - long fights - ill water the plants today ...
- naran - mani - maharaj - n bhaiyaji - coz they were - family- people i grew along with....
- xaviers - being the junior - being the senior - advising - taking advise from - learning - to be me......
- college canteen - the food - the guitar playing - seniors nagging - nagging the juniors...
- professors - their crazy internal politics - playing them against each other - immitating- teasing - being friends with...
- my kinetic - 9559 - my freedom - riding my moods away- taking adi on his first ride- running erands - being free........
- my library - spending tonnes - on Mills & Boon - total crap - yet addictive-Govind bhai - to coax- to tease into less fines...
- C.G Road - to rakhdo on - to browse - to shop - to have fun ...
- Janta - the cold cocoa - with Y - after the long walk - to loose- to gain weight ...
- Food joints- pouring out from each corner - hanging out on the hot spots - more watching the ins-n-outs - then eating.....
- Lahri's - the dabeli wala - the samosa chat center - the sandwich wala - the gola wala - the chinese wala- please be there- when i visit...
- Atira - the forced walks - the irregular walks - the green - the hot guys - the daily routine - with Y - to rant and rave with.....
- a sense of security - of knowing - that nothing can wrong here - coz this ur home - this is ur cacoon - a safe haven....
- being a child - no responsibilities - no worries - to be cared for - no expectations - no decisions - just being - at ease....
- the festivals - holi with friends - the crazy fun - the diwali with family - to dress up - rakhshabandhan - to get my brothers- to Pay - big time ...
- the family pot-lucks - all the food - the noise - more than 50 of us - together - always - smiling- bitching - but - together....
- going on long holidays - nainital - kulu manali - rajasthan - damn- diu - kachch-bhuj- family - friends- fun....
- riding across town - to make it to the movie show - in time - always late - laughing - giggling - cracking jokes...
- going to Drive-in - the food - the trashy crowd - the hoots - the lovers in backseats - the fights over car space.........
- being drenched in the rain - waterlogged streets - kinetic - spurting dead - hauling it home - wet to the skin- but laughing away - cursing away....
- the heat - the white strip - where the watch protected the skin - the long cool -cold coffee drinks - the season of mangoes - n air conditioners to sleep...
- working - teaching - instilling confidence - a hope - that u can - being a friend - somebody to lend a hand - to share - to goof around with...
- going out late at night - for the ice-cream - that u have have to have - dragging all with me - just coz the craving hit ...

miss being home.....................................................................................
posted by soleil 5:50 PM Permalink

Things Im NOT Confused about -

- My family is my biggest strength – n im theirs.
- I love desserts of all kinds…n they r going to be the death of me!
- I am a perfectionist – often slow because of it.
- I think im tone deaf!
- Chocolate can cure anything!
- I love languages, can speak gujarati, hindi and English. I started learning French after 10th grade …n have taken courses on and off – but its getting very rustic now!
- Psychology is the right field for me. I know I will eventually find my sub-field.
- Honesty and integrity are things I respect the most in a person.
- I hate people who are manipulative.
- I swear a lot in my head....am getting more vocal about it.
- I like working independently and being in a position where I have a say.
- I enjoy working with people a lot more then working in an administrative position.
- I hate sales and marketing.
- I flunked 12th Science – and since then have a phobia of numbers!
- Understanding a subject is a hell of a lot more important then the grade u get in it.
- I often let-go, or give up on situations where I should be more adamant or assertive.
- I have a creative streak – but it isn’t something I wish to pursue professionally.
- Photography, reading, listening to music n watching movies are my favorite tp’s.
- I can window shop for hours together.
- I don’t know how to apply make-up…have to make do with kajal n lip gloss.
- I want to get my ears pierced but am too scared to try!
- I love spending on junk jewellery – hoop earrings are my absolute fav.
- Ive earned since I finished school n am proud of it.
- Teaching n working with students to improve their English is something that I enjoyed a lot. I miss my students.
- I am very strong and can face any situation independently.
- I rarely cry. Tears don’t come easy.
- My grandfather is my idol. He was my strongest support and I owe everything that I am today to him. I miss him a lot. I wish he were still around. Ill never stop needing him.
- I’ve lived in a joint family all my life. N have loved every moment of it. The noise , the no-privacy, the responsibility of being the eldest of 6 kids... everything!
- I am a very shy n quite person around strangers.
- I have a lot of dedication n drive towards the things I believe in.
- I enjoy cooking ! cant make roti’s n some of the gujju food – the rest – no problem!
- I prefer -38 temperature to +45
- I share a love-hate relationship with my brother. Learning to live alone in a family of just 4 is bringing us a lot closer.
- My first crush was a guy who cud draw amazing cartoons in 4th grade! He was the cutest guy ever!!!
- I just broke up with the first guy I came to care about. It hurts...but im okei now! “hota hai chalta hai – duniya hai !”
- Subtle self promotion is an art that is essential to forward your career!
- You can’t please everybody.
- I have a very low boredom threshold!
- I love watching romantic films…n happy endings!
- I have read a couple of thousand Mills & Boon’s
- I need to loose 20 pounds! Like – yesterday!
- I can be very dominating with people close to me ! the big moma act!
- I am hyper serious n a worrywart to the roots.
- I crave Chinese food when im low ! The spicier the better !
- There are lot of really mean people around – im trying to hold on to the faith – that there are some good ones too. Failing…..95%......
- I am very possessive about my personal things. Don’t u dare mess it – oh hell – don’t even touch it ! (the warnings never worked!)
- I usually watch from the sidelines. Often choosing not to get involved.
- White lies often make sense.
- God n me – we talk things out. Temple’s n idol worship are unessential.
- I often talk out loud while dreaming! Gets kinda scary – I hear!
- I am a listener. Its difficult for me to open up and talk to others about how I feel.
- I want a dog! A lab or a golden retriever ! Please!
- I sometimes get tired of being responsible.
- I think I skipped the fun part of being a teenager…..
- I take a lot of time while making decisions. But once a decision is made – I stick by it!
- Aamir Khan is absolutely the best ! Julia Roberts….Gregory Peck – groovy!
- I am very curious about Indian history and wish to read up on it. Flaunting our culture my new aim !
- I never had a teddy bear when I grew up ! God knows why! But I want one NOW ….i think im going to have to buy it !!!
- Im addicted to the computer.
- I smoked a biddi once – it was yukkky !
- I have 10 left feet n cant dance!
- Family is more important then career.
- Im a stationery freak ! the more the better !
- I tend to spend more then I should! Don’t care !!!
- I dislike wimps n people who cant make decisions!
- I don’t like wine! Love lime martinis n strawberry daiquireis!
- I envy people with confidence. I need a few injections of it..
- I want a digital camera, a mobile n a laptop !
- I cant drive a car ! have to learn !
- I miss my kinetic a looooooooooooot!
- I believe in “grey” areas.
- Im cold when im mad ! cold war !
- I think toe-rings are kool !
- I keep designing the ideal décor for my house in my head.
- I am learning a lot of new things everyday.
- I always have “To-do” lists when im trying to organize my day
- I love mess ! I can live in a totally shabby room – no issues!
- I hate the fact that u need money. Barter system definitely had something going for it.
- I hate obligations of any kind.
- Sarcasm is something I need to learn n use.
- I love wasting my time doing nothing ! this is an example!
- I am confused about lot of things…issues….people….

- I’ve reached my boredom threshold. End. posted by soleil 4:23 PM Permalink

i wonder how to fix all this mess
posted by soleil 12:44 PM Permalink

lets try n test a few things - shall we !
posted by soleil 11:29 AM Permalink